The System That Broke Us, and the Hope That Remains

Imagine how much more our children could thrive if the goal of school wasn’t compliance, but curiosity. Imagine if we gave them room to grow, explore, and learn through experience rather than lectures, worksheets, and endless tests.

It’s Okay to Need Help: A Reflection on Motherhood, Autism, and Burnout

Being a stay-at-home mom to two young kids is a full-time job—one I cherish deeply. I love my daughters and the life I’m building with my family. But I’ve come to realize that love isn’t always enough to keep me going, especially as an Autistic and ADHD adult navigating motherhood. Before I became a mom,Continue reading “It’s Okay to Need Help: A Reflection on Motherhood, Autism, and Burnout”

How to ADHD: An Insider’s Guide to Working with Your Brain (Not Against It)

A few months back, I saw Jessica McCabe’s video on How to ADHD about her book coming out this month (January 2024) so I immediately went and pre-ordered the book! A few days ago, it came and I’m so happy! So, I’m starting off this year reading through this book about How to ADHD! I’mContinue reading “How to ADHD: An Insider’s Guide to Working with Your Brain (Not Against It)”

Neurodivergent Struggles with Homemaking

I am so sorry I haven’t posted more recently. I’ve been switching medications, and adjusting to new schedules, and celebrating Halloween and all that fun stuff, plus seeing a new therapist and going through a “dark night of the soul”. Essentially everything is changing for me, for my family, etc and I’m doing my bestContinue reading “Neurodivergent Struggles with Homemaking”

School, Chaos, and More

Wow, it’s been a few weeks since I last posted on here. So sorry for the short hiatus. We’ve had a lot going on here the last few weeks. The end of August, our oldest kid’s preschool teacher contacted us about a home visit before school started so she could get to know our kidsContinue reading “School, Chaos, and More”

Spending Time With Little Ones

I struggle with imaginative play. As a child, I didn’t have a problem playing imaginatively with friends and siblings. But looking back on it, the majority of our imaginative play was acting out real-life scenes/events/people, rather than making up our own stories. Our play had all the limitations of the world around us. Now, asContinue reading “Spending Time With Little Ones”

How To Set Up Your Environment To Support You

One of the biggest things I’ve learned the last year is the importance of setting up your environment to support you rather than hinder you. Especially as an AuDHD-er, I struggle with so many things that Neurotypicals don’t. Just a couple off the top of my head: Time Blindness, which is not knowing how muchContinue reading “How To Set Up Your Environment To Support You”

A Few Ideas for Homemaking That Anyone Can Do

1. Practice Self-Care as a need rather than a want. Self-care. It’s a phrase often used by bloggers and stay at home moms on social media these days. But what does it really mean? Self-care is taking care of your mental and physical well-being. It can include things like taking a relaxing bath, meditating, workingContinue reading “A Few Ideas for Homemaking That Anyone Can Do”

Adjusting For My Weaknesses

A while ago I wrote about weaknesses and how it’s important to know your weaknesses and adjust your life so that they can be strengths instead. I said I’d write more about that, the next week, but then life got in the way, so… here is that post! I’ve noticed that I’m not great atContinue reading “Adjusting For My Weaknesses”

Looking Back… I Never Could Have Imagined…

Seven years ago, I was in Mexico teaching kids English, exploring the country on the weekends and on vacations. I wasn’t dating and I had no dating prospects. I had just finished all but one class I needed to graduate and I walked for my degree, knowing I wouldn’t be back for school and I’dContinue reading “Looking Back… I Never Could Have Imagined…”

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